Reflections on the Journey

It’s been 2 years since the crazy day in October when Phil told me he was a Christian naturist. Lately I’ve been reflecting on all that the last two years have held for us. Looking back, I’m blown away by the transformation that God has done, not only in our individual lives, but also the transformation that has taken place in our marriage, in our family, and in our spiritual lives. God has taken us on quite the spiritual ride!

This morning I was preparing dinner. Baking bread and putting soup in the crockpot. Since I wasn’t cooking bacon, I did all of this nude. I began remembering a time when I was uncomfortable being nude alone! Yes, really! Shortly after our talk in October 2019, Phil encouraged me to try to get comfortable being nude at home. I thought it was so weird! What if someone came to the door?? I remember the first time I opened the blinds in my laundry room and let the sun shine in (we have high windows and I am short so there was no chance anyone would see me). The sun felt so good!

Phil and I were laying in bed a couple nights ago unwinding before sleep. We have an open door policy at our house now. If the door is open or unlocked you are welcome to come in. If it is locked, go away. The other night, Phil and I reflected on what it was like at the beginning. I was terrified to be nude in front of our kids. I was afraid it would scar them for life! I remember sitting in our room in November of 2019 and Phil encouraging me to just go to the kitchen and get a drink while the kids were watching TV in the living room. I remember crying worrying about it. I remember our now 17 year old walking in our room while I was under the blanket and asking, “Are you naked?”. When I responded yes, instead of hugging me good night, he rolled his eyes and huffed and went upstairs. I was devastated! I remember having conversations with each of our boys telling them why we were changing our minds about the body and why we felt it was ok for us to walk around our house nude. They all understood. I remember the slow progress we made with them. Our daughter was still young enough that she didn’t have an issue with it at all. We have come a long way! Our children wander in and out of our room nightly now.- just to chill or to talk. They are no longer phased by our nudity. It’s normal for them. None of them are walking around the house nude, but I consider it a win that they are seeing the body as normal.

They are no longer phased by our nudity. It’s normal for them.

I remember our first trip to the naturist park in the middle of December. It had snowed the day before and we were praying for the sun to be out. God is so good and the sun was shining and it was a balmy 46 degrees Fahrenheit. The closer we got, the more nervous I became and started to wonder if we were doing the right thing. When we arrived we were met by the nicest man ever! He knew I was nervous and never pressured me to do anything I wasn’t comfortable with. On top of that he was (and is) a Jesus follower and I was so grateful for that! Even though we didn’t see many people that day, I am so grateful for the interaction and conversation we had with that man. I am convinced that the Lord used him to help me! I remember walking along one of the trails that day with nothing but my furry boots on and even with the cold temperature, we stayed on the trail for an hour before retreating to the hot tub. I remember feeling the sun on my whole body for the first time. I will never forget the feeling of freedom and the closeness I felt with God that day!

I will never forget the feeling of freedom and the closeness I felt with God that day!

I remember jumping into the deep end with our naturist marriage retreat and how weirdly natural it felt to be with these fellow believers who also were enjoying letting the bodies God gave us breathe. Those people are amazing parts of my spiritual family now. I remember my first time on the nude beach and how awesome it felt to play in the waves and lay on the sand.

I remember all of the times we have been to the park and all the new friends we have made and all the fun. All the deep spiritual conversations we’ve had and all the encouragement given. When we aren’t there, we long to return.

God took something that was meant for evil (a pornography addiction) and turned it into good using naturism. That’s what God does if we will let him. If we will get out of the way and listen to the Lord, he will open new doors for us. He will show us his love and grace in ways we never could have imagined! I’m so grateful that he had prepared my heart and mind, even when I didn’t know it was happening, to be able to embrace my husband and this journey. Even though I’ve been a Christian since I was 7, God used naturism to start me on a new spiritual path. I was stagnant and stale and really dry bones, but God challenged me in my thinking, starting here and it continues. Are you up for the challenge?

17 thoughts on “Reflections on the Journey

  1. Dwain

    Thanks for sharing Mrs. Phil! I believe God has something planned for you and wants to use you to help other women, that are in bondage, that don’t realize that they are in bondage! It was great, at the retreat, to hear how God used naturism to set the ladies free from their past hurts and fears! God is Great!

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    • Mrs. Phil

      Thank you Dwain! I appreciate your encouragement! It is my heart’s desire that the Lord would use my story to help other women! Blessings to you!

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  2. freetobeme10

    Thank you for sharing your beautiful story! This journey continues to amaze me and you as well. This is the path God chose for us. When we follow, He blesses beyond belief. So happy for you. You shine with God’s brightness! To be continued!!

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  3. b3rtj0n

    So glad you have made this wonderful journey and share it so freely. My wife and I enjoy being nude as often as possible. It is such a shame that so many Christians have a negative view of the body that God gave them and declared it very good.

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  4. Dave Titus

    I have a very different story of how I came to identify as a naturist. But it was a definite case of a direct answer to my prayer of desperation, and God’s leading in my life that led me from a life of secret lust addiction that I’d contended with mentally for 1/3 of a century and was impossible to defeat, and great fear of being seen nude, to the exact opposite, lust gone and no fear of being seen nude. So I’m a naturist by God’s direct leading, although most christians would deny that God would do that. I would have too because in my mind nude and lust were so tightly bound together I couldn’t conceive of one existing without the other, so when I first saw the term “Christian naturist” I thought it was a total oxymoron. Now I am one in good company with Adam and Eve and Isaiah and Samuel with his school of the prophets. Although I do still feel uneasy being nude around those who aren’t. Not sure I will ever get over that.

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